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Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael — Q&A
Anonymous questions on dating, engagement and marriage, answered one a week. Listed from the first shiur, so you can learn in order.
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Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael Q&A - Being Critical of our Spouses
How do you find the balance between not letting things bottle up but not constantly criticizing each other?
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Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael Q&A - My Husband Is Not The Man I Thought He Was
This shiur has been anonymously sponsored in the merit of Shalom Bayis in their home. To sponsor a shiur, dvar Torah, a Q&A or an event please email us at nitzotzos@gmail.com Question: What do you do if you thought your husband was more into learning/ valued
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Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael Q&A - In Laws and Expectations
This week was anonymously sponsored in zchus of shalom bayis and ahavas yisroel! For only 18 dollars you can sponsor a shiur, a Q&A, a Dvar Torah or an event. Your small contributions go a long way towards helping us continue to do the great work we are doing
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Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael Q&A - Designed Tension
This weeks question is sponsored on zchus for a Refuah shelaimah for chaya fruma bas perel Miriam Malka. Zechus for shidduch Ariella grina bat chaya Sara, Devorah bat rivka Sima, Sara bat raizel Miriam, Rachel shirafat bat raizel Miriam. For only 18 dollars y
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Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael Q&A - Spouses and In Laws
This weeks question has been sponsored in Zchus of refuah shleimah of shaye Ben chavah and Yehoshua Aryeh Leib ben Masha. For only 18 dollars you can sponsor a shiur, a Q&A, a Dvar Torah or an event. Your small contributions go a long way towards helping us c
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Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael Q&A - I Need My Husband's Help!
For only 18 dollars you can sponsor a shiur, a Q&A, a Dvar Torah or an event. Your small contributions go a long way towards helping us continue to do the great work we are doing at Nitzotzos. To sponsor please email us at Nitzotzos@gmail.com Question: How do
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Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael Q&A - General advice for couples in Klei Kodesh
Question: Financial insecurity can be a big source of stress in a marriage. We are a klei kodesh/kollel/teaching couple living simply, but still struggling to make ends meet with children we have been blessed with in quick succession and the hope for more bsha
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Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael Q&A - General advice for engaged couples and newlyweds
For only 18 dollars you can sponsor a shiur, a Q&A, a Dvar Torah or an event. Your small contributions go a long way towards helping us continue to do the great work we are doing at Nitzotzos. To sponsor please email us at Nitzotzos@gmail.com Question: What a
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Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael Q&A - Nothing Ever Changes
For only 18 dollars you can sponsor a shiur, a Q&A, a Dvar Torah or an event. Your small contributions go a long way towards helping us continue to do the great work we are doing at Nitzotzos. To sponsor please email us at Nitzotzos@gmail.com Question: I’m co
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Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael Q&A - Abandoning My Single Friends
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Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael Q&A - I Don't Know What I'm Doing
This weeks question - I have heard and learned that the environment of a home comes from the woman. I would like to have a more yiddishe home than I grew up in, but sometimes I struggle to know how to create that without ever having lived in a home like that a
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Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael Q&A - Setting a Tone for the Family
For only 18 dollars you can sponsor a shiur, a Q&A, a Dvar Torah or an event. Your small contributions go a long way towards helping us continue to do the great work we are doing at Nitzotzos. To sponsor please email us at Nitzotzos@gmail.com Question - When
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Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael Q&A - Making Time to Relax
For only 18 dollars you can sponsor a shiur, a Q&A, a Dvar Torah or an event. Your small contributions go a long way towards helping us continue to do the great work we are doing at Nitzotzos. To sponsor please email us at Nitzotzos@gmail.com This week's Ques
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Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael Q&A - Speaking Lashon Hora to Our Spouses
For only 18 dollars you can sponsor a shiur, a Q&A, a Dvar Torah or an event. Your small contributions go a long way towards helping us continue to do the great work we are doing at Nitzotzos. To sponsor please email us at Nitzotzos@gmail.com Question: My hus
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Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael Q&A - Asking Again and Again with No Success
This week Question and Answer is anonymously sponsored in zchus of healthy children for Klal Yisrael Question - My husband doesn’t really express his love and feelings for me as much as he feels them, it bothers me because I’m someone that needs to hear it mo
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Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael Q&A - Dividing Responsibilities
Question - I am really struggling with division of responsibility in the house. It feels like I am always doing everything. I've spoken to my husband about it before and he has improved but only for a short period after our conversations. What does Rav Burg re
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Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael Q&A - Where is the Line?
This weeks question- Before I got married I would listen to shiurim online and hear Rabbeim tell their talmidim that if their wife wants something then that's it! He should do it for shalom bayis! While I appreciate the strong emphasis that is being placed on
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Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael Q&A - The Little Things
This week's Question - Most of the times I find myself struggling with Shalom Bayis it is with the "little things", when I become frustrated with my husband about disagreement of timing or general miscommunications. I find it hard to remain calm and speak nice
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Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael Q&A - Not Your Husband's Mashgiach
Question: Rav burg recently discussed The idea that one should not be a mashgiach for their husband. I struggle to find the balance because I married someone that holds himself to a specific standard in yiddishkeit and hashkafa and it’s something that’s top pr
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Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael Q&A - When Shadchanim tell us to "settle"
Why is it that shadchanim are constantly saying what I’m looking for doesn’t exist? Are there not boys out there who value learning and also understand the responsibility to make a parnassa? What should a girl do when she’s told such a thing? Any Chizuk to kee
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Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael Q&A - The Role of Attraction
I'm always stuck after a date where I don't find the boy to be attractive. He has other qualities that I'm looking for, but attraction isn't there. Any advice?
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