Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael Q&A - When Shadchanim tell us to "settle"

Why is it that shadchanim are constantly saying what I’m looking for doesn’t exist? Are there not boys out there who value learning and also understand the responsibility to make a parnassa? What should a girl do when she’s told such a thing? Any Chizuk to keep pushing forward? Thank you!