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Dvar Torah · Rav Mordechai Burg

Listening to Our Own Messages – Ben Sorer U’Moreh (part 1)

Aug 29, 2023

This article first appeared on genaleph.org

כִּי־יִֽהְיֶ֣ה לְאִ֗ישׁ בֵּ֚ן סוֹרֵ֣ר וּמוֹרֶ֔ה אֵינֶ֣נּוּ שֹׁמֵ֔עַ בְּק֥וֹל אָבִ֖יו וּבְק֣וֹל אִמּ֑וֹ וְיִסְּר֣וּ אֹת֔וֹ וְלֹ֥א יִשְׁמַ֖ע אֲלֵיהֶֽם: וְתָ֥פְשׂוּ ב֖וֹ אָבִ֣יו וְאִמּ֑וֹ וְהוֹצִ֧יאוּ אֹת֛וֹ אֶל־זִקְנֵ֥י עִיר֖וֹ וְאֶל־שַׁ֥עַר מְקֹמֽוֹ: וְאָֽמְר֞וּ אֶל־זִקְנֵ֣י עִיר֗וֹ בְּנֵ֤נוּ זֶה֙ סוֹרֵ֣ר וּמֹרֶ֔ה אֵינֶ֥נּוּ שֹׁמֵ֖עַ בְּקֹלֵ֑נוּ זוֹלֵ֖ל וְסֹבֵֽא: If a man has a wayward and rebellious son, who does not obey his father or his mother, and they chasten him, and [he still] does not listen to them, his father and his mother shall take hold of him and bring him out to the elders of his city, and to the gate of his place. And they shall say to the elders of his city, “This son of ours is wayward and rebellious; he does not heed our voice; [he is] a glutton and a guzzler.” (Devarim 21:18-20) The wayward son is a glutton for meat and drinks wine excessively. His parents were not successful in discipling their son and he mocks their attempts to do so. In fact, the Ben Sorer U’Moreh commands his parents. When his parents won’t pay to support his habits he steals what he needs. Feeling that they have no other recourse, the parents bring their child to Beis Din. The Torah instructs the Beis Din to sentence the boy to death because he is destined to become someone far worse than the child he is now. The Gemara in Sanhedrin (71a) teaches that there never was now will there even be a Ben Sorer U’Moreh. Why then does the Torah teach

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